Smex Ed

This topic has been one of the most controversial topics in Sex Education over the last few years. In this article we are going to discuss: the original study conducted in 1957 where the G Spot was first “discovered”, the recent studies that contradict the findings of the first study, and information on how to figure out if you have a G spot. On top of that, we are going to put it into language you actually fucking understand.

The “Discovery” of the G-Spot

The G- spot was discovered in 1950s by a German scientist named Ernst Gräfenberg. Gräfenberg was conducting a study on urethral stimulation and how it relates to the female orgasm when he discovered an erogenous zone in the anterior wall of the vagina that could be stimulated for pleasure. He named the spot, The G-spot, after himself.

His studies became mainstream and popularized in the 1980s. But there are some indications that his original work was misconstrued when it was brought to the general public. A little after his studies were popularized, there was a lot of studies that were contradicting the existence of the G spot being within every single woman.

Different Studies:

There are a variety of ways that scientists have attempted to figure out whether or not the G spot exists.

Survey Based Studies:

As survey based study is when scientist survey a large group of people by asking them the same questions. For example, “do you feel stimulation in this area or not?” “What does it feel like?” “Do you feel it all the time?” etc. The scientist than take all of the surveys and collect the data and create a conclusion about whether or not their hypothesis was correct.

Cadaver Studies

There’s a specific study, I think it was done by the Journal of Health and Medicine, where they dissected 13 Female cadavers to see if they could see the G spot inside of the vaginal canal. When they dissected the cadavers they found no prove that the G spot existed in any of them.

The fact of the matter is, depending on what study you read, they all typically contradict each other. But the scientific world is leaning towards the conclusion that: if the G spot exists, it is NOT inside of every single vulva owner.

There is even a textbook, The Psychology of Human Sexuality, that refers to the G spot as the gynecological UFO. It has many sightings, but no confirmation of existence.

Therefore, if you are a vulva owner and have always wondered why you don’t feel any type of stimulation in the G spot, you aren’t alone. You are not broken. You are completely normal. The fact of the matter is, vulva owner pleasure is an elusive topic that modern science can’t “pin down.” The science will continue, but we may not get any definitive answers anytime soon.

Saying that, there is still education about the G spot that we can discuss so that you can figure out if you have a G spot or you do not.

Education on the G spot

The G-spot is located two inches inside of the vaginal canal. If you are using your fingers, lubricate them well, insert them into the vaginal canal, and go up 2 -3 inches.

If you are looking to see if you have a G spot, it will require you to attempt to stimulate the zone. My first piece of advice, try “warming” yourself up before you go fishing for your G spot. Start with a little clitoral stimulation and once you are somewhat aroused, insert either your fingers or a toy (both need to be well lubricated) into your vaginal canal.

It’s stated that the best way to stimulate the area is by making a “come hither” motion with your fingers. If you are using a toy, look for one that specifically states it’s a G spot stimulator, insert the toy, turn it on, and move the toy around a bit inside that vaginal canal.

Now, if you start to feel “something” that resembles increased arousal, you may have a G-spot. For example, if you start to feel your nipples harden, your breath increases, you feel a tingling sensation inside of you, you notice more arousal fluid, it could indicate that you have a G spot.

It is said that if you stimulate the G spot, it can produce a G-spot orgasm: a powerful full body orgasm inside of the vulva. Now saying this, does that mean all vulva owners can have a G spot orgasm? No not exactly.

We have to remember that when it comes to vaginal penetrative orgasms only 18% of the population can have orgasms produce via that type of stimulation. This means there are 80% of vulva owners out there that just can’t climax with penetration alone. Therefore, if you can’t normally get off via penetration, it is unlikely that you will be able to produce a G spot orgasm.

Once again, this is completely normal and OK! Don’t forget, there are 12 different styles of Orgasms that a vulva owner can produce (purchase the training I did on them here) so if you can’t have a G spot orgasm, you have other erogenous zones to be able to stimulate!

Also you will find a lot of people will say that G Spot stimulation correlates with ejaculation and or squirting. Basically it is believed that the way to get a vulva owner to squirt is by stimulating the G spot, which isn’t exactly the case. Every single vulva owner is different and what makes them squirt is different. It could be G spot stimulation OR clit stimulation OR nipple stimulation. It depends on the person, so if you are curious about that, ask your partner directly, don’t just assume.

Positions to Explore the G Spot

Now if you are looking to explore whether or not you have a G spot, there are a few positions you can try to see if you feel any type of stimulation.

Position 1: The OG

Position one is laying on your back propping a pillow underneath your butt to elevate your pelvis, then bringing your legs back towards your chest. Next use your fingers and insert them vaginally to try to find it.

Position 2: Supported Doggy

Another position you can try is getting on your hands and knees, putting a pillow underneath your tummy or something to support you, and then spreading your knees wide while you’re on all fours. Bring your hand between your body and try entering vaginally that way.

Position 3: The Frogger

This position is probably the most difficult position to try. You want to have your thighs spread out, like in a frogger position, and then squat on your fingers.

You can also use a toy instead of your fingers in these positions if that helps!

G Spot Toys

Typically when you are looking at G spot toys, you are looking at either single stimulation or dual stimulation toys.

Single Stimulation: There is a shaft of the toy and that is it. It is meant to stimulate JUST the G spot

Julian G Spot Vibe by Too Timid

Dual Stimulation Toys: Typically have a shaft and a clit stimulator. These toys are for my vulva owners who can’t get off via penetration alone, the dual stimulation helps them achieve a clitoral orgasm while being penetrated.

When it comes to G spot exploration, the Julian G Spot vibe is my most highly recommended beginners G spot toy. You can check out my other reccomendations for vibrators in my November issue article Finding The Right Vibe for You

Here are the reasons I love the Julian G Spot Vibe as a beginners exploration vibe:

1. Size: It’s tiny. No longer than 3 inches of insertable length. Perfect for G-spot stimulation while not being “too big” for some people who get intimidated by larger toys
2. Flexibility: The toy is flexible AS FUCK. Why do I love this? Because it means it’s easy to fit EVERY person’s body. It’s made of this flexible silicone so that it can fit perfectly into any person’s vulva.
3. Dual Stimulation: This toy provides clit stimulation with penetrative stimulation. Perfect for my people who can’t get off on just penetration alone
4. The Price: 35 freaking dollar. You can’t beat that price when it comes to a beginners toy. That way, if it’s not your cup of tea, at least you didn’t spend a month’s rent on it.

Misogyny & The G spot

Oh ya, we are going there today in this article. I can’t discuss the G spot without discussing the misogyny that is behind it.

Whenever I post a video discussing the topic of the G spot and the fact that it doesn’t exist in every vulva owner, the amount of bullshit I get from men is ridiculous. Most comments consist of

“yes it does, your spreading lies”

” It does exist. If someone isn’t feeling it, it’s their partner’s fault that they can’t satisfy them”

“I can help you find your G spot, sweety”

“ You’re wrong, it does exist (then goes into GRAPHIC detail about their partner that loved G spot orgasms)”

The list goes on and on. I know I can’t fully blame the men who leave these comments because they were lied to just as the rest of us were, but it’s always ironic how many men tell me how wrong I am when I address this topic and yet the comments I receive from women are:

“This is life changing information. I thought something was wrong with me”

“Thank God! I don’t think I have one and this made me feel better”

“Thank you for talking about this. I needed to hear it”

The fact of the matter is: the G spot has NOTHING to do with men, even though it was “discovered” by one. Stop making it about you. Rather than accusing someone of spreading misinformation because it makes your ego hurt, stop for a second and realize that this is about VULVA owners and their discovery of THEIR bodies.

Female pleasure is an every evolving topic that will constantly stump the scientific world. Science always wants to give a reason WHY our bodies are capable of achieving pleasure the way we do, but the fact is, there is no reason, WE JUST DO.

Questions about the G Spot? Leave a comment on this post and I will do my best to find you the answer!