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Maybe Santa can give you a spankin’

It’s that time of year, the holiday season. The weather may be cooling down, but that doesn’t mean your sex life needs to. At Smex Ed Magazine, we’re all about helping you enjoy a happy, healthy, and fulfilling sex life, and the holiday season is the perfect time to turn up the heat! Between the hustle of festive preparations and cozy winter nights, it’s easy for intimacy to take a backseat.

That’s why we’re bringing you a fresh collection of exciting new sex positions to reignite the spark and keep things sizzling in the bedroom. Whether you’re looking for playful experimentation or deeper connection, these ideas are designed to add a dash of spice and creativity to your love life. Let’s make this season not just merry, but steamy too!

Number One: The Good Ex

This position brings a whole new meaning to “coming together”—literally. It’s all about creating deep intimacy, with the added bonus of hands-free clitoral stimulation if you or your partner reach down to lend a helping hand (or two). It’s pleasure meets connection in the best way possible.

How to do it:

Sit on the bed facing each other, legs out in front like you’re about to awkwardly start a two-person yoga class. Now, do a little leg lift swap: the receiver hooks the giver’s right leg over their left and their own right leg over the giver’s left. Scoot closer, lie back, and voilà—you’re an X-rated X! Instead of traditional thrusting, let slow, sultry gyrations take the lead for maximum pleasure.

Not that flexible?

No worries if you’re not quite bendy enough to nail the X-leg crossover—intimacy doesn’t require Cirque du Soleil skills! For a more accessible version, try sitting on the bed facing each other with your legs bent and knees touching. You can wrap your arms around each other for support and lean back slightly to find a comfortable rhythm.

If even that feels tricky, try the seated spooning position instead: one partner sits on the bed with their legs extended, and the other partner straddles them while facing away. This way, you can still enjoy intimacy and connection without the gymnastics. Bonus points: both positions still allow for hands-free stimulation if desired!

Number 2: The Snow Angel

Nothing like bringing back the nostalgic snow angel, but with a spicy twist this holiday season. This position is a multitasker’s dream: the receiver gets prime access to their partner’s most sensitive spots, while the giver’s pelvis is basically a grinding MVP for clitoral stimulation. Pro tip: add a flirty butt massage to really level up the vibes. Who doesn’t love a little bonus pampering?

How to do it:

Think of this as missionary’s funky cousin. The receiver lies back while the giver straddles them—facing the other way, like they’re ready to moonwalk into intimacy. The receiver lifts their legs, wrapping them around the giver’s back to raise their pelvis into perfect alignment. Want to help things slide along smoothly? A gentle grab of your partner’s booty doubles as a guide and a cheeky little thrill.

Not that Flexible?

If you’re not feeling limber enough to pull off this position, no worries—it’s all about finding what works for you. Instead of wrapping your legs around your partner’s back, try resting them comfortably on their thighs or hips. This keeps things fun and intimate without turning it into a stretch session.

Alternatively, place a couple of pillows under your hips for support and elevation. This takes the pressure off your legs and still gives your partner great access for all the sexy grinding action. Remember, flexibility isn’t a requirement for a good time—comfort is key, and a little creativity goes a long way!

Number 3: The Bermuda Triangle

69 is sooooo 2004. However, 69’s spicy ass cousin, the Bermuda Triangle could be your new fav.

How to do it:

Picture this: the giver’s lounging on the couch, leaning back like they’re about to binge-watch their favorite show—but the real entertainment is the receiver. Standing in front of them, the receiver bends over, bringing the classic 69 vibes into an upright remix. It’s got all the spice, minus the neck cramps, and lets gravity do some of the work. Bonus points for creativity and a little added cardio. Who knew multitasking could be this fun?

Not that Flexible?

If bending over for this vertical 69 feels more like an Olympic event than a sexy adventure, don’t sweat it—there are ways to make it work without pulling a muscle! Instead of standing and bending, try kneeling on a cushion in front of your partner while they sit on the couch. This lowers the angle and takes the pressure off your back and legs.

Another option? Have your partner sit on the edge of the bed instead of the couch so you can rest one knee on the mattress for extra support. Flexibility isn’t the goal here—comfort is! Adjust the position until you both find the perfect balance between spicy and stress-free.

Number 4: The Flying V

Quack Quack to all my Mighty Ducks Fans. This position isn’t only meant for the rink, but for your bedroom.

How to Do it:

This position is all about turning your couch into the VIP lounge of pleasure. The giver leans back, channeling their inner king-of-chill vibes, while the receiver sits on top, stretching their legs forward like they’re casually owning the whole setup. It’s not just comfy—it’s genius. The receiver’s extended legs give them full control of the motion, while the giver’s hands are free to roam, offering a prime opportunity for some extra fun (hello, multitasking!). Plus, the close, face-to-face angle makes it a perfect mix of intimacy and spice. Think of it as Netflix and thrill—but you might not even get to the “play” button.

Not that Flexible?

If stretching your legs forward feels more like a workout than a steamy moment, don’t worry—there are ways to make this position work without a flexibility test! Instead of fully stretching your legs forward, try bending your knees and planting your feet on either side of your partner’s hips. This gives you more stability and control without straining your hamstrings.

Another option is to scoot up slightly and rest your legs over your partner’s thighs or the arm of the couch for added support. Comfort is the name of the game here—if something feels awkward, tweak it until you find a variation that works for both of you. Sexy and snug beats stretchy and stressed any day!

Number 5: The Little Teapot

Tip me over and pour me out, indeed.

How to do it:

Here’s a playful twist on the classic seating arrangement: The giving partner sits on a chair, legs stretched out in front of them like they are casually lounging, while the receiver stands in front of them, bending forward and supporting themselves with their hands—think of it as a sexy version of a yoga pose. In this unconventional setup, the reciver lowers herself onto the giver, finding a fun and intimate rhythm that’s anything but ordinary. It’s a mix of balance, flexibility, and a whole lot of creativity!

Not that Flexible?

If flexibility isn’t your thing, don’t stress—there are plenty of ways to make this position more accessible! Instead of going all in with a deep forward bend, the receiver can keep things more upright by kneeling in front of the giver, then slowly lowering themselves onto them. This takes the pressure off the back and still keeps the intimacy going.

Another option: Have the giver sit on the edge of a chair with their feet flat on the floor, while the receiver stands closer, leaning over the giver’s thighs for support. This way, they can still enjoy the connection without needing to channel their inner yoga guru. The goal is comfort and fun, so feel free to adjust until it feels just right!

So there you have it—spicy, creative, and flexible (or not-so-flexible) ways to elevate your bedroom fun, all without needing to be a yoga master. Whether you’re looking to spice things up with a twist on old favorites or experimenting with a new position, the key is comfort, connection, and a little bit of imagination. So, why not bring a little extra heat into your routine this season? If you found these tips helpful (and hopefully a little hilarious), share this article with your fellow adventure-seekers! After all, we’re all about good vibes, great sex, and keeping things lighthearted—so let’s spread the love (and the laughs).