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MISSIONARY TWEAK

MISSIONARY TWEAK

Take it out of the bedroom and to a surface that allows the top partner to remain standing (think: dining room table or kitchen counter, or even stay on the bed but have your partner stand next to it). This again allows for the top partner’s hands to be free to roam, but also could have a voyeuristic element if you choose to take it out of the bedroom and in front of a window.

DOGGY STYLE TWEAK

Take it to the side. Instead of both of you being on your knees, try laying down on your sides and spoon. You can play with leg and body angles a bit and even be able to reach around and touch your partner’s chest. While this may not seem like a “spicier” version, if you have knee problems or hip issues, this can take the pressure off and allow for a more leisurely exploration. This always makes me think of Sunday morning sex vibes.

COWGIRL TWEAKS

COWGIRL TWEAKS 

Move to a chair or the couch. Channel your inner lap dancer and get your grind on with your partner sitting in a chair or slouched on the couch. Face either way (toward them or away from them). Put your legs outside of their or inside. Play around until you find something that feels good. Letting your partner touch you or not is completely up to you.