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We’ve all heard of Astrology in one way or another, whether it’s seeing your horoscope or if you have done a full exploration of your natal chart with a professional. You may even have a basic understanding that there are these signs and they all mean something…but what can you actually do with that information?

I wish the answer was simple but the truth is Astrology can play a role in literally everything you do in one way or the other. You can embrace this wisdom in each aspect of your life down to how you go about your day to what your best career is to how to raise your children in a way that feels right for you and them.

Astrology is a cosmic guide that you can use to tap into your energy and the way the inner workings of your mind process life around you. But it can be so much deeper than that when you take the time to dive into all the layers that your celestial blueprint can express. When it comes to all things Sextrology you can discover the erogenous zones that connect for you on a soul’s level, explore your inner feminine essence and how she needs fed and nurtured, and see how you can best express yourself and your sensual desires.

Understanding your Sextrology lets you see a new layer to who you are and can bring out confidence for yourself that you may not have felt before. It tears down the walls and the structures that society tells you that you should feel and lets you realize it’s ok to feel the way you feel. Astrology is literally a cosmic layout of who you are on a soul level and when you apply that to your life in a sexual aspect it takes away any doubt about who you are or who you can be if you let yourself.

Astrology gives you the gift of permission to be exactly who you are and have no fear, doubt or worry about whether you are enough.

As women we always feel the need to compare ourselves because societal constructs tell us we need to look a certain way, act a certain way, and be a certain type of woman. But the truth is you are uniquely you, and there is no one like you in the world. Hearing that may sound so cliche but when you look at your cosmic breakdown (also known as your natal chart) each piece of that is what helps to make you YOU. There is not another person in the world who has your direct energy and cosmic layout.

I love astrology so much because it’s more than just a bunch of words thrown together saying random facts that could work, when you apply it properly you can set yourself on the path to whatever your heart desires. Astrology can help you heal your traumas and move through the obstacles in your path. It opens roads to your future you didn’t know where closed and it shows you the truth about who you have always been even in moments where you didn’t see that light.

Each time I have done an astrology reading for someone my heart is full because I get to watch this person see themselves fully, sometimes for the first time in their life. It’s a magickal experience in many ways and if you are interested in more of this look into booking a session to get a full reading of your own.

With that, I wanted to share some details about each of the signs and how they stand in their sensual powers. You can look at your specific sign, your partner’s sign, your friends and loved ones, or do a full study and explore them all. 

Your sun sign is the zodiac season you were born under, for instance if you were born on the 24th of April you are a Taurus sun sign. Check the dates below for an estimate of your sun sign or you can go to Google and type in your birthday and ask for the zodiac sign. Your rising sign, also known as your Ascendant, is determined by your time of birth and you need to know that to get an accurate response. You can calculate your rising sign here https://cafeastrology.com/ascendantcalculator.html 

Check the sun and rising signs because both play a part in how you move through your life and can resonate with you on different levels. Your sun sign essence shows how you express yourself sexually and the cravings that could be truest to how you want to be seen in your relationships. Your rising sign can help you see how others may view you and your relationship skills as well as how your opinions/desires connect with those in your life. Let this be a guide to take your sex life to cosmic heights and permission to enjoy the ride.

The Signs Sextrology

Aries Sun Sign and Aries Rising

An Aries woman is the true fierce and bold queen in and out of the bedroom. She embodies strength, fire, and the spirit of a woman who can do it all on her own. When she is younger she is more attracted to older partners as they are less likely to want to stay forever and comfortable with the hook up. But then as she matures she feels more drawn to younger partners that have the energy to match her fiery spirit. She can also push off being locked down in a forever relationship by falling for someone who her mind knows is not good enough for her (asshole magnet in a subconscious way). She may have stronger blocks when it comes to marriage and long term commitments and will keep her options open for as long as she can. She knows she may have a roving eye and can be open to what is out there but trust if she has a partner she expects them to be committed to her and her alone. She wants that feeling of being worhsipped and seen for the queen she is. She likes rough and energetic sex and doesn’t need intense foreplay. An Aries woman knows what she wants when she wants it and doesn’t need to be teased and played with forever before she can get off. Straightforward pleasure and intimacy is more satisfying for her. She also knows what she likes in the bedroom and if she wants to sit on your face she doesn’t fear letting her partner know. She is likely to have f-f-m threesomes where she can explore her sexuality openly at some point in her life and will not judge herself for that desire when it comes up.

The Aries male likes to be challenged and seen as the strong masculine figure that they are. They want a partner to notice them and seek them out as someone to lift them up. They don’t settle. They know the type of person who would be their match in and out of the bedroom and they can’t be convinced otherwise. They have moments of traditionalism and moments of society norm breaking when it comes to relationships but they are not afraid to show their animalistic side when needed. They can lose interest in someone once they’ve had sex with them quickly and find that being turned down or teased and playing a game keeps their interest. They like to look good and want a partner who notices that as well as takes time to look good themselves. They like nice things and strong smells so having a partner who take that into consideration is important. If you have an Aries male as your significant other lighting a candle before sex can be a serious sexual mood booster. ​​Also doggy style is one of their favorite sex positions as it is freeing for their inner fierce beast.

Taurus Sun Sign and Taurus Rising

The Taurus woman is an Earthly goddess representation. Looks are important to them as they embody the true essence of a material girl. The Taurus woman spends time leaning into her passions and cultivating her energy so that she is that diamond in the center of the room and attracts someone who sees her as the treasure she is. She has to learn that looks can lead to deceiving and when she only puts her radiance out there to attract a partner she draws in the ‘not so great’ kind quite often in her early years. It isn’t until she starts to see herself for more than just how beautiful she looks and acts will she attract the partner who treats her like the goddess she is. A Taurus woman outshines the other women in her family, specifically her mother even if her mother is also a Taurus woman. Whatever her race a Taurus woman tends to have softer and fairer skin than others in her family. She is a creamier kind of woman. She finds tattoos and piercings a way to show her heart on her body. It’s applying her artisticness to her beauty which she sees as taking her gorgeousness to the next level, where a Taurus woman is supposed to be. Which of course means this is also a key attractive quality for her partner to have too because it expresses their creative side. She is also attracted to a clean shaven partner. She craves a traditional relationship and fairy tale romance that she knows she is worthy of. Taurus women often marry young as they claim when they find what they are looking for they just know. She is attracted to a partner who can match her at the level she’s on and this means she gravitates towards an older partner to fulfill her needs. Bulls are known to be strong animals and a Taurus woman has one of the strongest sex drives out of all the signs. She finds her power in embracing her pure femininity and being the embodiment of the divine feminine. She can be known to have a submissive energy in the bedroom at times. She gets off on knowing she is pleasing to her partner. A Taurus woman is one of the most likely signs to become an exotic dancer or role play stripping for their partner.

A Taurus male is directly connected to Venus energy so this makes him more feminine and open to his emotional and sensual side over other men. He will not be your typical he-man rough and roguish guy. He can keep a lot of his thoughts and desires close to his chest which gives him a mysterious edge. He has good leadership tendencies in his friend groups or relationships but is normally attracted to strong and powerful partners that can dominant him. He normally values personality and someones knowledge and power over beauty and appearance. He likes slow and intimate sexual experiences especially if there is a lot of eye contact. He wants to be able to see his partners pleasure in their eyes. He may feel insecure about how much he enjoys the sensual side of things because normally it’s a woman who wants the sweet and intimate exchange of pleasure but in his heart of hearts that’s what he craves as well. His ideal partner understands his needs and respects his openness in his emotions in and out of the bedroom. This does not mean he doesn’t have fantasies that speak to his kinkier side. He may prefer thicc girls in bed or even for his partner to wear lingerie or costumes as they get together sexually.

Gemini Sun Sign and Gemini Rising

A Gemini woman has two very strong recognizable personalities that her partner must be understanding of and open to since she is only ever one at a time and may not be aware when she switches from one to the other. She needs a clever partner to keep of with the whirl train her mind rides on. A Gemini woman is attracted to forbidden fruit or the relationships that are looked past for most people…someone who is “too old”, “too married”, or even “too her actual boss”. Her having interests in this type of relationship can also cause her to act more naive in the bedroom than she actually is. However role play is a fun way she can spice up her life in the bedroom, specifically taking this desire and playing into it with teacher/student or boss/assistant fantasies. Also she is not afraid to self pleasure in bed if her partner isn’t getting her there and she prefers to be in control of a situation. Masturbation during sex as well as mutual masturbation for foreplay is one of the most comforting acts she can engage in sexually. A Gemini woman normally has extremely sensitive nipples and can find her pleasure heightened when she has toys and accessories to extend foreplay around her sensitive buds. Gemini women are erotically curious and always intrigued when others share their sex experiences. They can even enjoy watching bisexual porn no matter their own sexual preferences.

A Gemini male is normally the most energetic of the signs. He is known to be very showy, whether it shows up as his flirting skills always being put into play or making gestures with his hands or eyes or just being very open and touchy as he tries to be noticed by his current partner. He wants to make sure that he is seen and noticed in each moment. Even when he is in a committed relationship he can’t help but be the flirty one in a group always letting himself appear to be available even if the other person knows he’s not. He also has a strong desire to be thought of as fun and playful. Take note of the truth behind his words though because sometimes the Gemini male puffs up his feathers a little too much as he tries to make himself appear better than others. He never wants his partner or even his friends to think of him as safe, boring, or even comfortable. He is known to be a good date planner as he takes into account his partners needs and passions and lets his inspiration roam into all the possibilities. He likes to be a bachelor and is comfortable playing the field or going from partner to partner letting his taste for what he wants be met. However when he does settle down and fully match with his ideal partner they are normally very similar and in alignment with one another. This ideal match is like his penguin and mates for life as they get each other on all levels and both share the over the top energy. He makes his partner feel as if they have known each other forever and helps to create the perfect situation for that dream family man persona he has secretly craved for all these years. When his partner wears white is is a big turn on or even when watching someone he can find a look more attractive if the person is wearing white, as he sees it as a sign of purity and innocence and he wants to help them find their sexual side.

Cancer Sun Sign and Cancer Rising

A Cancer woman is easily the most emotional of the signs and has a pouty mouth signature look when she embodies her sensual energy. If she feels starved for sexual attention she will attach herself to whoever shows her romance and notices her. A Cancer woman is drawn to guys with daddy issues and who strongly portray the values she sees as raw masculinity. Since she is such a nurturer this is the opposite of how she portrays herself to the world and she can give so much to her partner. Sex is easily mixed with feelings of love as a Cancer woman brings her emotional side into everything. She is more into giving pleasure than just receiving it. She wants to know she is in control of her partners pleasure and she gets off on seeing them give in to her will. The truth is the Cancer woman is sex magick personified, think of the witches of the past who dance naked under the moonlight unashamed of who they are and happy to be here, this is the inner workings of the feminine of a Cancer woman. She is intentional when it comes to sex and pleasure play with her partner. Everything happens for her pleasure and theres and there is no room for uncomfortability. Throat play and swallowing are big turn ons for a Cancer woman who is aligned with her sensual side and she needs a partner who can let her play out her cravings for pleasure and let herself be free in the bedroom.

A Cancer male embodies the idea male romantic role that cinnamon roll hero who knows how to do everything right. He recognizes the power a woman has and understands how to show her that he fully sees her for who she is. There is something forever sweet about a Cancer male, as if he is always going to be that fairytale prince looking for his princess and trying to slay the dragons and save the day. He is intuitive about his partner and can inspire feelings for him from others because of this skill. This sweet exterior can cover some hidden playboy ways as his connection to others lets him get close to them and their walls come down for him. He can be very guarded with other men, his family or even friendships, because he views women so highly and looks to them for that maternal guidance and respects a female structured world. He searches for this strong counterpart that he can lean on their ideas and can lift him up with their wisdom. In the bedroom, this also means he can be giving to his partner but in truth he is the ones with needs and wants to make sure his partner can actively satisfy him. He can have needy reactions in sex and want to be overly stimulated as well as bring in lots of foreplay for both. Playing with his woman’s breasts and sucking on them is a way to get him harder and needy. He is also the type to be all over his woman when he sees her pregnant and carrying his child where in other relationships this can be a turn off or cause disinterest. A Cancer man is also the most frequent sign to cuddle after or want to go to sleep following orgasm.

Leo Sun Sign and Leo Rising

A Leo woman has a larger than life personality in and out of the bedroom. She is more than just a radiant queen but her beauty carries a fire like quality to it that burns brighter the more she feels seen. Eye contact is huge for a Leo woman, she wants to feel noticed at all times. Just like her lion counterpart a Leo woman is fierce and strong in her identity, she needs a partner who isn’t shy about letting her be in her fierceness. She is not overly loving with many people, and can often times take emotions out of sex and let it just be carnal pleasures. But when she finds someone worthy of all she has to offer and lets her emotions mix the pleasure heights she reaches are vibrating with joy. She has people in her life she is connected to on a souls level that are not romantic partnerships, this can normally look like a life long best friend or being very close to a member of her family. When she burns to brightly in her relationships it is these people she needs in that moment to fall back on and let them remind her of her light. In the bedroom submission is a form of a foreplay, she acts innocent and sweet drawing her partner closer and then pounces like the sex kitten she is. Edging herself and others is a game for her and always makes things more fun since she is the master of flirtation and teasing. She also likes play fighting and struggle role play during sex, the challenge has her ready and aching. This feeds her inner lioness as well as exhibitionism can be a big turn on for her.

A Leo male sees himself as THE KING in every sense of the way. Talk about a golden boy who knows how to use his charm and talents to take whatever it is he wants in this world. He has an abundance of affection to share with his partners. He is not the type of man to fall in love easily, more often he has high attractions for someone even if he doesn’t have sex with just anyone. Porn and solo play are high on how he may spend his time until he finds someone worthy to show all of himself to. It is said that more Leo men marry their high school sweethearts than any other sign. They are the commitment type when they want to be. However he is known to test his partner, putting them through a ring of challenges at the beginning of their relationship (normally on a subconscious level) to make sure they are a good match for one another. He can use the truth that other people want him and he could have anyone at any point to get a reaction out of his partner. He isn’t doing this intentionally to be a jerk, but more to see how they respond to this knowledge and if they want to keep him all to themselves but fight for it not just give in. He craves a partner who wants him as much as they want him to want them. He doesn’t want someone who just gives in to his whims and every desire but a partner who challenges him and meets him at every turn. He needs a partner of substance. More often than not a Leo man will not be kinky and tends to have more of a vanilla sex life.

Virgo Sun Sign and Virgo Rising

A Virgo woman is quiet but beautiful. She is not over the top like some of the other signs may be. She is a natural beauty and doesn’t feel the need to be extreme with showing herself off. A Virgo woman wants a partner her recognizes her true youthful beauty and finds that more attractive than anything covering it up. She is very honest about what she wants and how she may feel when it comes to certain sexual experiences. If her partner wants to try something or do something they just need to bring it up, she is normally very understanding and curious herself to see if she would like something. She seeks partnerships who can easily blend with her life. She wants to be the missing thing that someone has needed and is not turned off by past damage or someone who is a little rough around the edges, but open to it and thinks she can be the someone who helps them through it. She nurtures her partner and wants to see them grow as much as she wants to see them pleasured. She has creative kinks and fetishistic qualities when it comes to the bedroom. Don’t be surprised to find degradation/humiliation is a turn on for her and stimulates the side of her that wants to feel opposite of the soft and sweet woman she is used to being seen as. Darker lingerie like corsets and crotchless underwear and leather boots can also amplify how she feels sexually. Doggy style is one of the most powerful positions for her sexually as it stimulates her body in all the ways and doesn’t make her feel like she needs to do anything in the moment but feel. She gets to be used and enjoy it.

The Virgo male has a strong obsession with perfection and having things in his life that make sense. He may find himself in a job or a career path that focuses on changing or altering substances (i.e engineer, ceramicist, architect, product designer, scientist, etc.) due to his Earth sign connection. A Virgo man has a high moral concept and follows his design for a structured way of doing things and needs a partner who meets his expectations. He has a fear of failure almost as much as a fear of success that leads him to finding something suitable “for now” but can get stuck there if he never finds the drive to push himself out. He needs a partner who can recognize when he is allowing himself to get stuck and help him talk through what he could do next. He is also known to be overly critical, of others but more often himself. He may try and mold his partner into the person he wants them to be, instructing them on what clothes he thinks looks best and how to carry themselves so they appear better. He is a leader in his relationship and can find himself taking the blame for a partners actions and choices even if he is not at fault. He is also likely to be used by a partner in his youth, someone who is with him as only a stepping stone or place holder until something better comes along. If this happens he will be more guarded then normal and needs a partner who can bring him out of that shell. He can go long stretches without sex but when he finds a partner he connects with in other ways well, things can really heat up. That’s not to say he isn’t a sexual person because he is. A Virgo man has active fantasies and will try to prolong pleasure for as long as possible. A Virgo man strives to experience his orgasms on a full body level and wants his partner to know how well they did pleasing him. He may be into voyerism as well as being in a polyamorous relationship and other “not normal” relationship structures within societal eyes. 

Libra Sun Sign and Libra Rising

A Libra woman wants a partnership that is equal in everyway but because of who she is naturally she carries herself as if she is above others at times, this is something that will turn a lot of potential mates away because it can be hard to recognize for what it truly is and not a superiority complex. A Libra woman is wisdom and class personified in a shell of beauty so she can be seen as the ideal partner for many. She attracts more than she can handle at times but trusts that she knows who is meant for her and who just wanst to be in her artistic spotlight. Libra women can struggle with sharing what they want sexually. She can be in a happy and comitted relationship but feels she needs to keep things the way they are and play the role of happy housewife instead of letting her passions run wild. She holds onto the troubles of her past relationships and can seem more detached when it comes to love instead of open to it. A Libra woman is not someone who dresses overly slutty or sensual, more beautifully graceful. She is drawn to the pretty boy type, normally younger and well dressed and groomed. She finds sensitive partners attractive as this is something she wants to embody more of in her own life.

She wants someone who wants to take care of her, not just sexually but in all ways in a relationship. She wants to be nurtured and finds that someone who will do things for her and bring her gifts is most often her ideal partner.

A Libra male often has a youthful quality to him and stands out in a crowd. He is a master of wordplay and innuendos so pay attention when spending time with him. This can lead to him being a very attentive partner as well because he listens to you before intentionally sharing his next thought. He is someone who keeps his emotions close to his chest and can come off easy going or always pleasant towards everyone in public, even if he is emotionally struggling on the inside. He needs a partner who can pick up on his subtle changes in mood and help him to talk out what is going on in his head instead of letting him put up the facade. He is the most common sign to be “friend zoned” or even put himself into a friend position because he feels like he can’t stand up to what other guys can offer. He is not the overly masculine sign, or the guy who is extra sensitive or even highly flirty. He is the guy you want to spend time with who makes you feel better about yourself but unless you’re looking for it you don’t see what is right in front of you. He may experiment with other guys (or even just look at them and think about in his mind) before he finds his forever kind of love as he feels he doesn’t have to compete or be looked down upon, especially since he has a more feminine like attitude than other males might. His feminine side also translates into the bedroom as setting the mood is important and he wants to make things “special”. Mood lighting or slow music is all a part of his foreplay and he takes extra care when he is with a partner taking the time to find exactly what they want. One of his biggest turn ons is the soft touch, lightly running his fingers over someones skin, gentle kisses and breathing on your skin before he kisses or after. It is all about the subtlety. 

Scorpio Sun Sign and Scorpio Rising

A Scorpio woman oozes feminine allure and is raw sensuality at its finest, think Persephone the goddess of the underworld vibes. You have to be pretty bold and beautiful and unafraid of the darker side of things to attract a man like Hades, the god of the underworld and ruler of demons.

She often seems half interested in things or like she is not fully present but waiting for what comes next. She needs a partner who understands her emotional roller coasters and that she does care even if she does not show it in every moment. Her hair is an attractive feature for a Scorpio woman, whether she spends time on it to treat and nourish it or it’s already naturally rich this is a part of her body she takes pride in and wants to be seen. She sees past just the physical appearance and finds the person she is connected to on an emotional level. She is not known for having a “type” and if you look back through her past relationships it may not make sense why she was with each of her partners because they seem to not have much in common. However being a “mama’s boy” is a natural occurrence for Scorpio lovers as they’re more in tuned to gravitate towards a strong and powerful woman. She has a healthy self esteem when it comes to her role in a relationship, and doesn’t feel insecure about who she needs to be because she finds partners who want her for exactly who she is since she doesn’t put on an act. A Scorpio woman can give you some of the best sex of your life, better than porn explosions because she knows her body on such an intimate level. She spent years getting to understand what turns her on and she gives the same attention to her partners pleasure as well. Her oral skills are off the charts as her mouth is naturally more equipped to open wider and she enjoys taking pleasure in sharing this ability with her partner. You will also find that she holds a flame to the title seductress and is known to have strong bedroom eyes.

A Scorpio male stands in his beliefs and is always questioning things including his prospective partners. He likes to solve life’s mysteries and uncover details about anyone he is close with, always seeking what they have beneath the surface. He will not fall for someone fake or who “doesn’t have a lot going on” because of the work he puts in with his partners. He may be more focused on his needs and desires than someone he is with at first. He keeps most people at arms length until he subconsciously lets someone in past his walls to see all of him. This gives him an air of mystery that his partners find attractive. However, he wants someone who sees the real him and wants to be with him because of that. If you want to be with a Scorpio male look beyond the mask he shows the world to the man beneath. A Scorpio male has his own past that he is always battling and evolving from. In his youth he might have attached to compulsive behaviors whether it be drugs, sex, or bad habits anything that caused adventure in his life and gave him something to focus on besides himself. As he gets older he realizes who he is and does some serious self discovery work, more than most signs would. However his devilish side is always something he has and is a part of what makes him him. This can absolutely lead to the bedroom as for him sex plays an important part in building a strong relationship. He can help a partner to enjoy his desires and guides them into sexual waters they may never have considered, which being the first to experience this with him is a huge turn on. He is drawn to the way his partners body feels more so than just their appearance. 

Sagittarius Sun Sign and Sagittarius Rising

A Sagittarius woman wants more than what life lays out for her. She has big goals and dreams even if she isn’t consciously aware of what they are and needs a partner who encourages her flame doesn’t try to put it out. She shoots for the stars when it comes to finding her ideal partner, and will wait for someone who matches the lifestyle she enjoys for herself. She would rather be alone than settle for someone. She glows with joy and a lust for life and finding someone who has passion and drive is a huge turn on for her. She needs someone she can laugh with and not be afraid to be herself with but that doesn’t mean beauty is not important to her. She takes a great amount of time and effort into being the queen that she is and whats to be recognized for her work. Flattery is important to her and is a big turn on in the bedroom as well. Psychological flirting and foreplay is her domain. She may not have the best relationship with other women in her life, specifically family and struggles to push aside her issues with over the top femininity. Most of the partners that are then able to fulfill her needs are older individuals that have already established themselves and their success and motivation attracts her. She is also commonly making her love connections in the workplace or a highly driven environment. She is not the normal go on a blind date because a friend recommended it type of woman and can struggle on dating apps as well because what she is learning about the person is surface level and doesn’t let her get to truly see if they would match well enough or not. She wants to be courted and wooed. A Sagittarius woman craves to be spoiled and her partner needs to honor that.

A Sagittarius male is the most adventure loving sign of them all and this plays a huge factor in how they respond in relationships. He is a risk taker and has the big energy to match, and often times he uses this energy in sowing his wild oats and being the guy who jumps from partner to partner, especially in his youth. You may notice that he takes up space as well, by this I mean he stretches his arms above his head or stands wide or sprawls out when he sits down. This energy comes from his desire to be seen and noticed for his vibrancy, he is the peacock fluffing out his feathers. He likes that attention and the amount of potential partners he gets from being the stand out guy. He craves a partner who can let go and who he can help them free themselves from the structures they think they belong in. He wants to help enlighten his partner into all that is possible in and out of the bedroom for them. A Sagittarius male has a unique take on sex as he is not solely focused on his pleasure or his partners pleasure, but more so the act of sex itself and making sure the entire experience is fully enjoyed for all parties involved. For instance he would be someone who enjoys the spontaneous act of public sex and the heightened possibility of being caught is more of a satisfying reaction for him than being able to make his partner orgasm no matter where they are.

Capricorn Sun Sign and Capricorn Rising

A Capricorn woman, the cardinal earth queen that she is, owns her sturdiness and grounded quality. She almost seems to age backwards, seeming even more youthful as she gets older. She carries herself as an iconic feminine representation and her body works it. She can be seen as more of a late bloomer. She has a pronounced clit so stimulation and suction on this area is pure magick for her. She finds herself attracted to talent and big energy/big money but this can also lead her to being in over her head with someone who is really just talk underneath everything. She doesn’t have a lot of time for someone if they don’t give her their all in an instant. She will not let herself be bored. Casual sex is very easy for her as she still has needs even when she is not in a relationship and she can have successful friends with benefits or situationships. She doesn’t like not being in control and the idea of marriage can stall her. It is not the commitment part of it but more the mindset of being tied to something and not being able to be herself. She is not the epitome of “perfect housewife” and she is not a trophy prize. She wants to be the winner. However the bedroom is where her lack of control can really become a problem. If she feels like she’s not in charge it can be hard for her to feel pleasure at all and never reach the cliff that takes her to her orgasmic edge. She doesn’t need a lot of bells and whistles, she needs stability and to know that if you do this she will cum and if she does this you will too. It makes sense in her mind and helps put her at ease. She is also someone who has what I call “dream lovers’ ‘. This is someone who when she goes to sleep she thinks about sexually or when she is bored she may day dream about what if this was happening to her right now. It is not disrespectful to her partner and isn’t a rejection to them in any way. Her dream lover is almost like an imaginary friend who is always there to comfort her and this just happens in a form of mental stimulation. They can be a real person, or fictional character or completely exist in the constructs of her mind but they are hers and hers alone. While she may be more vanilla in the bedroom, afterplay and aftercare are important to her. Hold her, kiss her, bring her close to you and soothe and talk her.

A Capricorn male is very focused on his appearance, and can even have a traditional or old-fashioned attire that he is drawn to. He can be attracted to high end fashion, as well as clothes that make him feel successful with an air of opulence. You can often find him in elevated grey colors, like charcoal or slate or even silver as he has to take it up a notch and be more than anyone around him even over simple things. He has the vibe of someone who knows who he is and who he wants to be even from an early age (even though inside he couldn’t be further from the truth besides an idea of what type of successful he wants to be). Capricorn men are the most likely to have a beard or some form of hard stubble over the other male signs. He can find himself attracted to “broken girls” because they seem to have an energy around them that is more relatable and easier to be with than other girls. He also isn’t drawn to those who have a lot of sexual experience but have more of an innocent vibe that he can see and help them explore. He can feel rejected quite often early in his sexual experiences, because of how he looks or how he comes off with an air of arrogance, so he tends to find partners that are lower on the totem pole than he is. This can be on a social aspect, on a sexual level, or even in the appearance department where they are not the most attractive or beautiful partner desired. A Capricorn male has a unique relationship with Saturn, that helps to guide him in the patriarchal thinking, which dictates how he shows up in a relationship with the feeling like he is on top. He may expect his needs to be met over others, and he has such demanding needs in and out of the bedroom. His biggest flaw is that he chooses safe over what his heart really wants because it is easier for him to distract himself with work, or success, or growth that he can push aside his sexual desires. He may stay in a relationship long after he is no longer happy and satisfied. He is also likely to seek outside of the home entertainment, either with his spouses knowledge or not. He doesn’t do this with ill intent but because he finds that either his needs can be too much for his partner, or they fulfill him in other ways but not sexually so he could gravitate towards porn or strip clubs instead for his release.

Aquarius Sun Sign and Aquarius Rising

An Aquarius woman is emotionally more mature than most of the other signs. She is her own person and what you see is exactly what you get, no fluff. She has a style all her own as well. You can’t really say she fits into one type of woman. She may be a little bit southern belle with a new york fashion week twist one day and skater tinkerbell the next. Her partner sees and understands that and lives for the constant change she brings to the world. An Aquarian woman is also one of the most common to change her hair color, it’s her way of expressing her emotions in the moment. She prefers steady partnerships from an early age on. You could find her with the same person for a couple of years each time or just one partner for her whole life. If and when she decides to end a relationship it is after putting all of her time, heart, and effort into trying to make it work. She likes to expect the unexpected so spontaneity when it comes to her sex life is inspired and encouraged. She gets off on the mystery her partner can bring. Things like blindfolds, costumes and all the toys a woman can dream of add a spice to her life that she craves like no other. Sex is all fun and games for her as she sees herself as sexual…not sensual. Likely to lean into m-f-f threesomes where the female partnership is more connected, this can be an actual relationship or two best friends having fun with a guy one night.

An Aquarius male is quirky and fun and the opposite of anything traditional. At first glance he can seem at odds with himself, he could be really animated in conversation but have a relaxed and laid back attitude. It can really throw people off in social settings so he needs a partner who is comfortable and embraces his weirdness. He can be the most misunderstood of all the signs. As he matures his appearance gets more handsome and he has a desired look that most find attractive, but since he has lived his whole life in “that awkward phase” he isn’t normally conceited about it like others would be. He is not boastful either or one who brags about his accomplishments but more someone who wants to have conversation and open up ideas for topics and observe people as they discuss. His ideal partner is someone who can see beyond the picture painted in front of them. He may seem as if he is all about romance or connection or listening to his partner, giving off the vibe that he is not focused on sex, but secretly he is a sex fiend. He can have the freakiest sex life, but it is all behind closed doors and not openly shared or discussed so on the outside he doesn’t portray that. This being said he can be committed to one partner and play on one another’s fantasies and sexual desires…but marriage is a whole other realm he has to jump to and often times he falls short. It’s not that he can’t care for someone but the structure and the walls that close around him with those words can eat away at him, so his ideal partner does not apply pressure to him on this front.

Pisces Sun Sign and Pisces Rising

A Pisces woman is a beauty queen but moves through her life as more of a follower than a trend starter. She is more sheltered in her youth when it comes to sexual experiences and even in later years does not have the list of events to share like some of her sisters may. She keeps her desires close to her chest until she finds someone she things can hold her in her moment of vulnerability. She has some inconsistencies when it comes to her attractive partners. The bold masculine type, the stereotypical male energy, the beast to her beauty equally draws her in and repulses her. She needs a ruggish partner who can turn her on but can also be sensitive and has a link to his feminine side. She needs sex to have an emotional connection and strong feelings attached to it, otherwise the Pisces woman feels dirty and like she needs to wash the encounter away. She is a serial relationship kind of woman. Moving from one Mr. Right to the next until she finds her fish in the sea. She is an understanding lover and while her desires may not be fully prominent she is more than happy to give her partner whatever they desire.

She is not normally inclined to initiate sex or embody the seductress energy but her partner may feel like she is always trying to turn them because to them she is alluring. A Pisces woman makes connections in the bedroom that create strong bonds for her to pull on outside of the bedroom and keep her partner tuned to her body and appeal at all times.

A Pisces male is a poetic lover in all the best ways. He moves through life flowing from one thing to another not being held down in one place. He needs a partner who is grounded in ways he is not because they can compliment one another. He has a whimsy about him that many can be attracted to st first, but the draw of always dreaning or being in his head can get old quick. He craves a partner who can help him conceptualize everything in his mind and welcome it into the world of reality. They also need to be patient with him as he floats from one thing to another. A Pisces male is someone who can become very invested in his partner, quite early in a relationship and is comfortable being in a relationship as long as he and his partner are both happy. He wants to still be able to do his own thing in a relationship as he explores his passions or hobbies, not all of his time is spent with his partner even though he does love them. He is attracted to someone who is a little more eccentric than he is in appearance, since he shows the world more of a controlled and softer side of masculinity. His biggest struggle is that his mother and partner will not see eye to eye on a lot of things and can cause conflict for him. He has to work through what is most important for him and his future. He isn’t here for drama and just craves that pure and real kind of love from a partner. A Pisces male is not the type to cheat, rarely even considering something outside of his current relationship. He isn’t a highly sexualized person so as long as he feels a connection with his partner it is enjoyable for him.

I could go on for days and days when it comes to the power of sex and the zodiac and how understanding this can help you to amplify your best attributes and understand your partner more as well. Sextrology sessions, where you sit down and go over your personal sexual essence and cosmic blueprint as well as how you can connect with any sign or you can make it specific to you and your partner, are powerful in enlightening you in what is possible for you in and out of the bedroom.

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As women we are often taught to hide our sexual side but still look like the ideal woman should. It’s a conflicting mentality that leaves most of us confused, hurt, and defensive at a moments notice.

Everyone has their own sexual energy and when you can understand yours at your core, you gain confidence in pride in allowing yourself to embrace it. There is no more “I’m not enough.” mindset because it shifts to “I am exactly who I was born to be.”